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September 97 Column
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Peace of Mind
by Jana Barberio

Having access to the Internet, I have brought some peace of mind to myself and perhaps to others.  I can report that I have learned about several different illnesses, diseases and afflictions from a moment in Cyberspace.
Sharing this information with loved ones, friends and even acquaintances not only makes me feel as if I am doing my part in a tiny segment of the universe, but it provides power to those who are fighting an unfamiliar enemy.
Perhaps the ailment is something they have heard about but possess little knowledge of.  Now the malady is squarely facing them.  They are afraid.
Half the fear comes from lack of information
Information, once again, is power.
Months ago, my parents told me of my father’s gallstone.   Asking them questions was fruitless—they knew no more than I did about the cause, the seriousness and the treatment.  So I searched the Net for gallstones.
I found pages and pages of information.  I printed them out on my printer.
I went to the library and checked out a video that Dr. C. Everett Koop had made on the subject.  I sent my parents the results of my search.
Of course my father thanked me profusely and my research had left me sighing with relief.  Not a bad payoff, really.
Then there was the movie, “For Hope” I saw a few weeks ago.  About a woman with a severe case of Scleroderma, the movie shook me up a bit.  I watched it because a good friend of mine told me she had the disease.
I was so concerned about my friend’s condition that I and my husband discovered scores of information on the topic when we searched via the search engine Yahoo!  Now I know Scleroderma is much more than a skin rash, to say the least.
Someone I work with through the Women’s Survival Center told me that her 30-year-old sister was recently diagnosed with ovarian cancer.
I knew so little about this particular cancer, yet I knew it affected a woman’s ability to give birth.  She told me that her sister had three children and that she nor her sister knew much about ovarian cancer.
I felt helpless.
I told my coworker that I would find out more about this cancer.
Not surprisingly, I found so much information on the Internet about ovarian cancer, and other cancers which affect women, I could not even begin to list the Web addresses in this column.
Of course the statistics were shocking.  I knew the information could either relieve or worry my coworker and her sister depending on whether the cancer had spread to a new area.  (The chances of survival plummet from 90% to 20% depending on whether it has spread from the ovaries).
Nonetheless, I gave my friend the information and she was very appreciative.
A small part we all play in this world can be simply sharing pertinent information with others.
Serenity.
(September)


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Jana Barberio is a freelance writer and a former paralegal. She and her husband, John started the Holly Computer User Group in Holly, Michigan.  She can be reached by email at
jana@barberio.com
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